Stop the Parking Wars! How to Resolve Parking Disputes with Neighbours

Last Updated 3 July 2024 | Originally published 5 May 2017

Does the daily scramble for a parking spot leave you wanting to pull your hair out? You’re not alone. With more cars on the road and shrinking driveways, parking disputes between neighbours are a common battleground. But fear not, fellow driver! This guide will equip you with the knowledge and strategies to turn those parking wars into peaceful coexistence.

The Stats Don’t Lie: A Recipe for Conflict

The rise of multi-car households and smaller living spaces has created a parking crunch. According to a 2020 AA survey, a third of people now own more than one car. This surge in car ownership, coupled with limited street parking, is a recipe for conflict.

Understanding Your Parking Rights (and Realities):

• Blocking Access: This is a big no-no. The Highway Code states you cannot park in front of someone’s driveway (rule 243). If a neighbour blocks you in, a polite chat is the first step. If that fails, or they get aggressive, contact your local police station on 101.

  • There are exceptions to this rule:
    • A visitor to your property can park across the end of your drive, with your permission
    • Emergency Vehicles can block your driveway if necessary
    • Delivery drivers loading/unloading for a reasonable length of time (approx. 20 minutes)
    • Any vehicle undertaking building, signing, utilities or sewer works or collecting refuse for the council

• Parking Outside Someone’s House: Here’s the tricky part. While it’s courteous to park near your own home, there’s no automatic right to a specific spot on the public road. Frustrating, right? But that’s the reality.

• Designated Parking Spaces: Clearly marked spaces in apartment buildings or designated areas are a different story. In these cases, respect the assigned parking and find an alternative if someone starts using your spot.

Finding Parking Peace: Communication is Key

Before things escalate, talk to your neighbour! Be polite, explain the issue, and try to find a mutually agreeable solution. Maybe they can park differently, or you can work out a car-sharing schedule. Remember, a calm conversation can go a long way.

Stuck in Neutral? Explore Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR):

If talking it out doesn’t work, consider mediation. A trained third party can facilitate communication and help you reach a solution. Mediation services are usually cheaper than involving lawyers. Some councils even offer free ADR programs – check their website for details.

Reporting Illegal Parking: When Courtesy Fails

Sometimes, neighbours simply disregard the rules. If you see someone parked illegally (blocking a dropped kerb, in a disabled bay, etc.), report it to your local council’s Parking Enforcement Team. You can also use the Fix My Street website to report the issue directly to the council.

For illegal parking outside of council operating hours, contact the police on 101. Remember, only report genuine violations.

Remember: A peaceful street starts with good communication and a dash of understanding. By following these tips, you can turn those parking woes into a distant memory, and maybe even build a friendly rapport with your neighbours in the process.